Saturday, November 7, 2015

WHAT IS FIBROMYALGIA?

WHAT IS FIBROMYALGIA?

The definition is: Chronic widespread pain, fatigue, un-refreshed sleep, cognitive and affective complains. (Taken from Mayo Clinic Fibro class).

There is no known cause for Fibromyalgia. Some people get it while others do not. Researchers have found that many of those with Fibromyalgia have gone through an intense trauma. It is also found that Fibromyalgia hits people that are perfectionists, go-getters, and caregivers.  Why these types of people? Because these people push themselves and do not know how to take care of their own bodies.

Stress is a big factor in Fibromyalgia. Think of a pulse rate chart. A normal person’s stress is pulsed up and down sometimes more up and sometimes more down. A Fibromyalgia person who has the same stress responds always above and sometimes beyond the normal persons pulse rate. Always higher and higher. (This does not mean that people with Fibromyalgia are weaker, by no means. People with Fibromyalgia are more than likely clueless as to how to rest, relax, and take care of their own bodies.) Stress will signal the physical, emotional, cognitive, and behavior aspects of a person. If a fibromyalgia person’s stress is extremely high it will affect what they think, say, and even do.

It is interesting to note that much of this stress plays a big part in the brain. There is a chemical imbalance in the brain that is causing the body to feel pain or even stressed. During our class at Mayo they used an example of someone pricking their finger with a needle. A normal person will feel that pain but then the pain will go away after a few seconds. For a fibromyalgia person when they prick their finger the pain will double and they will feel as if the needle went straight through the finger. There is something in our brain cells imbalanced, a message is being sent to our bodies even though it may not be the right message.

The brain is an interesting thing.

For example: Remember when you first started driving? All those things you learned in Drivers Ed would come running through your mind as you stopped, turned, and looked at all those road signs. The more you drove the easier it became. It eventually became a habit, something you just did and did not have to think about. When a person stops driving for a long period in time they will find that it is hard to remember how to drive. For when a person stops using parts of their brain the brain takes that as a sign that that part of the brain is not needed to work.  

Weird huh? So when I stop using the learning and action part of my brain, it, in a sense goes on strike. For when one tries to learn something, they find it very difficult because they haven’t used that part of their brain in a long time. That is why for many fibromyalgia patients they struggle with getting back to a new norm. They have lived life in a survival mode, a flight or fight expectancy. Especially for those with fibromyalgia that have spent days and years going to doctors and lying in bed all day. Those patients struggle to jump back into a new norm of life.

That is why moderation is a big key aspect into the life of a fibromyalgia person getting better. It is also why doctors have created a self-management tool chart to help people get back to a normal lifestyle.

What are the self management tools?

Imagine a pie chart. A pie chart cut into 14 pieces. Each piece is significant into helping a person get back to a new norm. With each piece taken in moderation, a person will overcome the life that they live now. (Even if you are reading this and do not have fibromyalgia or an illness. These things are good for a healthy human’s soul.)

The pieces of the pie are:
~Positive Thinking
~ Decreased symptom Focus
~Relaxation
~Stress Management
~Moderation
~Time Management
~Nutrition
~Exercise
~Spirituality
~Leisure/Fun
~Humor
~Socialization
~Communication
~Sleep Hygiene

All of these need to be a part of a person’s life, even healthy people struggle with at least a few of these. Those with fibromyalgia struggle the most with sleep, relaxation, and stress.

Stress is another factor but to keep this blog short I will just say that the two things that will help are Gentle Yoga and Tai Chi Qugong. These are relaxation techniques to help a person become less stressed. Deep breathing is an important element in reducing stress. 

They say that medication helps with the pain for fibromyalgia as well. But the nurses and doctors at Mayo encouraged us to try the Self-Management Tools and not go on medication if possible.

So here it is. Some of the main things I learned at Mayo Clinic that I hope may be helpful for you!

If you are a fibromyalgia patient, I hope you are able to overcome and work hard to get back to a new norm.

If you are reading this knowing nothing about fibromyalgia I hope you were able to learn something.

 Take note: For family and friends that know someone with fibromyalgia. Please, help your friend and loved one. Do the self management tools alongside them. Encourage them. Don’t ask how they are feeling; instead ask how you can pray for them or how you can help them that day. This is the most beneficial way to help those with fibromyalgia.  

God bless you and remember God is good, all the time!

Much love to all who read!



*All helpful information was taken from my class at Mayo Clinic. J

LEARNING HOW TO LIVE AGAIN



LIVING

I have heard how people have gone through traumatic experiences and had to re-learn how to sit up, stand up, and even walk again. So bear with me but I never imagined having to learn how to live again. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve been breathing, eating, sleeping, thinking, and moving my arms and legs just like you. Something has changed though. I finally have an answer for what illness plagues my body. Through knowledge of this illness I am able to get back into a new norm in life. This new norm may not be anything like my life 3 years ago, but I will go back to a life of thinking, speaking and living life again. You see, there have been days upon days the past few years where I felt extremely ill with no plausible reason why. I have had to lie in bed and do nothing. I have suffered from intense pain. And I have felt stuck not knowing what to think, say, or even know what to do next. God is good and by His grace He has provided His wisdom with good doctors to find what is wrong with me.

I finally have an answer; I finally know what my illness is…

I have been diagnosed with Chronic Migraines and Fibromyalgia.

As for the migraines, I have been treated for the past three years for my migraines but my whole head continued to hurt. Even if the pain was lessoned with medication it still hurt. The MRI’s showed that nothing was wrong and so I continued to wonder what was going on and what caused my never ending 24/7 headache.

 I was diagnosed with Fibromyalgia two weeks ago while at Mayo Clinic. My first thoughts when being told I had fibromyalgia was relief and discouragement. For although I had been given a diagnosis everything I had been told about fibromyalgia by my doctors in KC was that you never got better. I even knew different people who had fibromyalgia and they never seemed to get better. Although thankful that I did not have anything worse such as cancer, MS, or even death; I was discouraged that I would never get better. Such was not the case! I went to a class for fibromyalgia patients at Mayo Clinic and received training on how to cope with fibromyalgia and get back to a normal life!

Through less than two days I was being taught what Fibromyalgia was and how through Self-Management Tools I would get better. You can imagine what a relief it was to hear that I could get back to a normal life with this illness called Fibromyalgia.

I have continued to say God is good and He truly is, because He continues to show me how good He is!

So today I find myself very encouraged. I am working at getting back to a normal lifestyle. I am on a migraine medication to help with the chronic headaches. I have set goals, moderation, and the self-management tools into action. I have become gluten free. I have become an exercise machine. And most of all I have found hope again. For as I said at the beginning, I have an answer with knowledge as to how to get back to a normal life and start living again!

MY 3 YEAR TIMETABLE

Over the past 3 years I have been tested for fibromyalgia, lymes disease, migraines, iron deficiency, vitamin deficiencies, muscular dystrophy, arthritis, diabetes, and brain tumors. My major symptoms included: Chronic fatigue; chronic migraines; chronic pain all over, but especially my head, neck, and shoulders; and dizziness. I was found to have low iron, low B12, low D3, and migraines. But every time I got tests done the doctors would tell me nothing was wrong, that I had a healthy body. You can imagine my surprise when I was told I had fibromyalgia.

Over the past three years I know my life has been full of traumatic events. The first year and at the start of my illness, I almost stopped breathing due to living in a moldy apartment. During that year I continued to have health problems which continue to increase. The second year my fiancĂ©’ died, I graduated with my undergrad, and I moved into my first place. All of this in less than a month’s time. The third year I had a bad dizzy spell at work having to resign and move from Kansas City to South Dakota.

Although I have seen other people’s lives way worse than my own, these past few years have been rough for me. But no matter how bad it has gotten I continue to turn to God. For He is good, patient, loving, forgiving, and caring. Over and over again when something traumatic would come my way I would run into my Saviors arms. For He is the only one with the answers. I can’t imagine not running to God through these tough times. As Stephen I started saying and believing at the beginning of it all, “God is good, all the time, and all the time, God is good!”

For those wondering what fibromyalgia is and what those self-management tools are check out my next blog post!


As always, much love to all who read!